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Post by Goldilocks on Apr 20, 2018 17:04:26 GMT
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQZLdO19XiUI found this concept to very much clarify an area of improvement for me. Being more generous in my interpretation of someone´s behaviour or opinions is a remedy for a whole set of deactivating thoughts.
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Post by juniper on Apr 22, 2018 2:07:25 GMT
i do love this.
As the child of a disordered mother who was, because of her wounding, unable to have this generosity, i was never given the benefit of the doubt, and because she had a lot of fear and insecurity, there was continual doubt.
Over the years of healing , individually and in the mother -daughter relationship, the fear has been replaced by generosity on both sides.
just like with my partner, i worked for it.
we worked for it.
but the rewards mean the difference between losing my mother while we are estranged, and losing my mother while we are enjoying a healed relationship.
this is is profoundly important and makes all the difference.
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Post by Goldilocks on Apr 22, 2018 9:05:32 GMT
It's beautiful how hard you have work to heal your relationship with both your mother and your partner.
You also deeply appreciate the results of your healing work.
Good stuff!
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Post by juniper on Apr 22, 2018 12:50:28 GMT
It's beautiful how hard you have work to heal your relationship with both your mother and your partner. You also deeply appreciate the results of your healing work. Good stuff! i have some stories to tell, healing stories. i should tell them here. this forum feels like a friend's living room. i am comfortable. thank you again, goldi! |
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Post by Goldilocks on Apr 22, 2018 16:26:30 GMT
You are most welcome!
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